“We started doing this before (Ace) was born,” Landry tells TODAY.com. “Everybody kept saying, ‘Oh, when the baby gets here, you’re gonna have jealousy issues.’ And I thought, ’It doesn’t have to be that way. I’m going to help them realize that they’re stepping into a very important role.’” If your child doesn't like being the center of attention, Dr. Gilboa suggests having them make a picture book for the baby about all the cool and interesting things they will get to do. “Kids want to feel like they’re part of a team, and (this mom) is doing that, and helping them to see that they will have new privileges and responsibilities,” Gilboa tells TODAY.com. Clinical psychologist and author Dr. Laura Markham also likes Landry's approach as it helps the older child to feel valued and recognized, but she also emphasizes that parents should affirm to the older child that their needs will still be met. Dr. Gilboa notes that transitions can be tricky for children aged 4 and younger and it can take roughly six months for them to believe that the new baby is here to stay. When the baby starts taking stuff out of their hands, they may start to feel frustrated. Overall, this New Orleans family is setting a great example of how to celebrate the important milestone of becoming an older sibling.
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“We started doing this before (Ace) was born,” Landry tells TODAY.com. “Everybody kept saying, ‘Oh, when the baby gets here, you’re gonna have jealousy issues.’ And I thought, ’It doesn’t have to be that way. I’m going to help them realize that they’re stepping into a very important role.’” If your child doesn't like being the center of attention, Dr. Gilboa suggests having them make a picture book for the baby about all the cool and interesting things they will get to do. “Kids want to feel like they’re part of a team, and (this mom) is doing that, and helping them to see that they will have new privileges and responsibilities,” Gilboa tells TODAY.com. Clinical psychologist and author Dr. Laura Markham also likes Landry's approach as it helps the older child to feel valued and recognized, but she also emphasizes that parents should affirm to the older child that their needs will still be met. Dr. Gilboa notes that transitions can be tricky for children aged 4 and younger and it can take roughly six months for them to believe that the new baby is here to stay. When the baby starts taking stuff out of their hands, they may start to feel frustrated. Overall, this New Orleans family is setting a great example of how to celebrate the important milestone of becoming an older sibling.
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